Sunday, June 15, 2008

Happy Fathers Day

Reflecting on the events of the last few weeks in our lives, I find myself today, so very relieved to embrace this wonderful holiday where we celebrate fathers.

It is my first, without my sweet Daddy.


Honestly, all of May I was dreading this day coming. I knew it would serve as a reminder of what I have lost. Instead, (although I do feel sadness missing him) I find myself very happy and content.

I've grown up with a wonderful Father, who I am indeed grateful for. His lasting impression in my life is a positive one full of happy and heart felt moments. But what I want today, more than anything else, is to focus on my wonderful, sweet husband.

In my eyes, he stands as a daily reminder of the kind of parent I want to be. He is patient and kind, intelligent,gentle and long suffering. He is quick to find humor in situations that otherwise wouldn't be funny. He sees beauty in things others don't even notice. Dan, I draw strength from you. I respect you and Love the Man that you are. I want to thank you for living the crazy wonderful with me. For sharing your love with our 7 children. I am so blessed. Happy Fathers Day Dan. I thank you, and love you.





I'm sure, like me, you often feel
When all is said and done
The job of raising kids today
Is not an easy one.

I'm glad you're there beside me
To counsel and advise
And help me find the answers
To their never ending "whys?"

I'd be lost without your shoulders
So much broader than my own
To lean upon when problems
Seem to big to solve alone.

As long as we're together
We can weather storm and strife
And take in stride the ups and downs
That go with family life.

And someday when our little ones
Are old enough to stand
Straight and tall without the need
Of any helping hand -

We won't recall how hard it was
We'll just be proud and glad
We happened to be chosen
For the roles of Mom and Dad

10 comments:

Dan the Man said...

I feel so blessed, lucky, special (not that kind of special...), loved, appreciated, needed, and wanted.

Thank you Janie for such a great Father's Day! The breakfast smorgasbord was awesome as were my gifts. This post just made me feel so happy. And whats more I know you have a great dinner prepared and you and the kids are off in the garage or somewhere outside being sneaky about something right now...hmmm...I didn't think you could keep secrets from me...I must be loosing my touch.

I love you more Rachel Janie Schnelly

Te amo para siempre
Dan

Rhonda said...

Happy Fathers Day Grandpa Oakes! I love that picture of him. He was always so quick to smile even when he didn't feel very good. We miss him today too.

-Sending a Happy Fathers Day Shout out to heaven--

Rhonda said...

HAPPY FATHERS DAY DAN-THE-MAN. No wonder you and Jed are BFF's...two of the best dads I know!
~Rhonda :)

Becky said...

Dan, you are an awesome dad! And I'm so glad you married Rachel--Happy Father's Day!

Rachel, this is such a wonderful post with beautiful photos and words--thanks for appreciating my brother and being a great wife!

Kirk and Aly said...

Rachel, you are amazing with words! I'm so glad to be able to get in touch with you through blogging! Your dad was an amazing man, I remember him always smiling and being so kind! You and Dan are such a great couple! What a great post!

Stephanie said...

Rach, I'm a little slow, and am finally catching up, but I loved this post! Your daddy is an amazing man and I love him too!!
Happy Fathers Day Dan too, you guys are so cute, what a great post!

jack+alli said...

rachel~i found your blog through rhonda...
what a gret tribute to that great daddy of yours~and also to your hubby!
~allison~

Diane said...

okay, brendon is ready to come swim. so pick a day next week.. don't say whenever. JUST PICK A DAY, and we'll come over! :)

Rhonda said...

So I noticed that this particular post only has 8 comments. 10 is such a better number, more roundish, ya know. So I just thought I'd post a couple more times to make it a more comfortable number to look at. You don't mind, right?!
~Rhonda :)

Rhonda said...

Ahhhh 10 posts. This is *much* better.

So I love your new background, did you get it from the cutest blog on the block? I plan on getting a revved up background soon. I'm sorta tired of looking at dots on my page. And not cute dots, the free dots that come with the free template. Borrrrrrrrringggggg!

over and out,
~Rhonda